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Regulate

Practices you own.

Built for the woman who has started things before and knows the feeling — high on Monday, gone by Thursday. Small enough to actually do, real enough to actually work. Nothing to believe, nothing to join, nothing to become first.

The approach

Safety first, then clarity.

I've taught Kundalini yoga and meditation for twenty-five years. What I teach now is what survived: the practices that actually change how your body feels, stripped of the doctrine that came bundled with them.

Regulate before you decide. You cannot think your way out of a body that doesn't feel safe — body first, then mind, then the decision. That single reordering is most of the work.

The sum total of who you are is what you do every day. That's the reason this is called Tools for Self Mastery and not Healing With Gigi — you practice it, you own it, and it goes with you.

Gurudarshan sitting upright in a low armchair, feet flat on the floor, hands open, eyes closed

The toolbox

What's actually in it.

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The 90-Second Reset

Ground and arrive. Feet flat, two sighing breaths, and a short guided return to the center of yourself. The one you'll use at 3am.

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The Gaze Practice

Three to eleven minutes with a piece of the artwork — open-eyed meditation for the woman who's sure she can't meditate.

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The Belief Swap

Catch the belief that's running you — “I'm broken,” “I can't trust myself.” Name it. Then swap it for the one that's actually true — not positive thinking, a more honest thought. “I'm broken” becomes “my nervous system learned survival, and it can learn safety.” Repeat until it's the default.

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The Discernment Practice

Boundaries are the missing half of intuition. This one gets you quiet enough to feel your own edges — what's yours to carry and what was never yours. Sort the signal from the noise. Hear your own yes and no again. Discernment first, clarity second.

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Kundalini kriyas & meditations

Short body-first sets — breath, gentle movement, sound. Taught as physiology you can feel, not a tradition you have to sign up for.

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The container

Tools for Self Mastery

Everything above lives in one place: guided practices, the open-eyed art meditations, and a community of women doing the same unglamorous daily work.

It's ongoing, not a one-time fix, because self-mastery isn't a purchase — it's what you do on a Tuesday. And you were never meant to do this alone. Doing it by yourself isn't strength; it's just the version we were handed.

Try it free — your nervous system will tell you if it's working

$11 a month after the trial, locked in as a founding member rate even as the price goes up. Leave whenever you want — no questions, and no guilt email sequence.

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In build

The signature course.

A self-paced walk through the full Coming Home Method. I'm building it in the open with the founding members rather than disappearing for six months and emerging with something nobody asked for. Founding beta around $297.

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The 90-Second Reset is free.

Ninety seconds, the one you’ll use at 3am, and it arrives on the very next screen. A free 5×7 print comes with it, so you have something real to rest your eyes on.

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